change is good

i was watching 'You've got Mail' today and a dialogue got me thinking. Meg Ryan said....."people say change is good.but what they really mean is that something that you never wanted to happen has happened". well i would like to add something to this............'deal with it'. Because isnt that we all do..we all deal with the changes in our lives in different ways. Some changes are good and thus we revel in them but most often (at least for me) change is scary.........i am personally set in my ways and i dont really like to change particularly if my existing pattern keeps me happy. But even though no matter how hard i try to keep myself stuck to the old live because it feels familiar and safe the change always has its way. it  molds and shapes me the way it wants and even does it very cunningly so that i dont even realize that i am actually following it dictates and not at all winning against it.
great poetry and songs have been written on this and few people even quote corny lines like 'the only thing constant is change', and i hate to admit it that it is true. so tonight after deep thought i have decided to let change take me where it will....and actually see what it has in store for me............because i know there are somethings that always were and will be in my control and the change can never touch them and as long as i have that i will never be adrift.